Boyfriend has another child,when ours passed away 6 months ago?

My bf of 4 years has just told me that he has gotten another girl pregnant .Last June I had gotten pregnant with twins by another guy but at the time we were not together but he stood by me,in november I had the twins and they passed away.So i%26#039;m not really sure what I should do.My heart can not stand to be around this child when my children has passed away.I do not blame this child because I know this is not the child%26#039;s fault, but i%26#039;m very hurt and my heart is so heavy.What would you do if you were in my shoes? Be as honest as possible!! Thanks in advance





I kicked him out,but i%26#039;m not sure if that was fair because he was there for me,but then again,I can%26#039;t stand to look at him.

Boyfriend has another child,when ours passed away 6 months ago?
I%26#039;m sorry for your loss!





He cheated on you when you were at your most saddest point in your life.He sought comfort in another woman and now is committed to raising a child with this other woman who is probably happy you threw him out so he could run to her and make a happy little family.





Some things in life are simply unforgiveable and having a baby with someone else when you are in a committed relationship is one of those things. He slept with her unprotected! He didn%26#039;t give a crap about no one but himself and selfish needs. Don%26#039;t let people drill in your head that the child is innocent, so what, it has nothing to do with the child innocence. People try to throw that guilt phrase out there too loosely. The child IS the reason you feel the way you do!!





This other woman is likely waiting on him to choose her and that child since she has his child now. No woman want to raise a child alone!!





He is not a good man to do what he has done to a four year relationship. When things got difficult he ran away, typical immature behavior when the chips fall down hard on some men.





Let%26#039;s this be the crystal ball to how he handles future conflicts and difficult situations. If you take him back he will run for comfort in another woman. Do not take him back nor allow people to tell you not to blame the baby! IT IS THE BABY%26#039;S FAULT!





Live your life, mourn over the good times with him and seek a strong, confident man that would break off a relationship first before jumping into another one, especially one that involves babies!!
Reply:Ummm I think you probably need to think over if you guys are committed. You both have gotten pregnant by other people, please use protection!! I am sorry for the loss of your twins but it isn%26#039;t a reason to resent the other child. I would say the most important thing is whether you want to be with your bf or if you think this is enough.
Reply:Maybe you need time alone to get your head together. Not sure if you%26#039;re both off having kids with others that you%26#039;re ready to commit to each other. I looked at your 360 profile - you%26#039;d had such sadness I think you need to give yourself a break and take time out from relationships for a while and then look for a different type of man. I thought you said you were pregnant with a little girl due in September ???? xx
Reply:Listen to your feelings.
Reply:you need to tell him how your feeling. im sorry to hear about your twins
Reply:be honest


tell him how you feel





i think he%26#039;ll understand your side of the story
Reply:I think you did the right thing to kick him out, not because of this situation in particular, but rather because your relationship was not working out.





In my view there are simply too many complicated and unresolved issues surrounding your relationship. To add insult to injury, you have just been through a very traumatic experience, which is probably really bogging you down.





I think that you did the right thing - not for the sake of this situation, but for your own. I think it would be best if your moved on, found your feet again and pursued a new relationship.



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